Top Feng Shui Gal Rx for Love, Relationships, and Life Mate Bliss

How to Attract the Relationship You Deeply Desire and Keep Your Soul Mate Connection Strong

Raindrops dripping from the drain pipes near the window woke me from my slumber. I turned away from the window and snuggled closer next to the soft dozing warmth of my husband. At the moment I opened my eyes, his eyes opened, too. We smiled and lay there quietly, relishing our palpable yet priceless connection. We cherished our time sleeping in on this cold morning. Inspired to read poetry aloud, we hardly got through two poems of Pablo Neruda's before we got more intimate in bed. We mirrored each other's affection. There was as much giving as there was getting. Yet, we felt energy that was greater than both of us: quantum energy. Somehow, coming together, we both felt bigger within than either one of us could have felt when separate. I felt we were truly soul mates who had declared our vows to be mates for life in this lifetime. I had not imagined before that feng shui to heal my heartbreak would yield such an impressive result for me now to be wife and mother. Feng shui for relationships is no joke. Read on if you desire to maximize your feng shui results beyond the typical revolving relationships that seem to just repeat the same frustrating dynamics, only with new “players” and faces.

The feng shui direction linked to relationships, intimacy, love, life mate, soul mate, marriage and whatever you desire to call your union is the Southwest. China, the motherland of feng shui, has been practicing such for over 5000 years. Since China is in the Northern Hemisphere, the most hot time of the day is when the sun sits South. This represents the passion of courtship. However, if you desire a real life relationship, you don't want something that is just a fling—something that will just flare up and die as soon as it is ignited or when it runs out of fuel. You want something warm and lasting. The Southeast is warm indeed, since this direction is where the sun is still young, which is more characteristic of teenage crush or Platonic love. The Southwest, however, is the direction that still has the benefit of the warmth of the South yet the more restful spirit of the West, where the sun starts to set and rest for the night. The Southwest direction has more of a sense of settling in, of making home, of being domestic. This is a wonderful direction to focus your intentions for your soul mate.

Let's look at the Southwest in your domain, in your own home. Identify which part of your home is Southwest. Use a compass to identify the sector of your home that falls within these coordinates. You may place your master bedroom in this sector or another room that encourages active intimacy between you and your mate. For example, I have seen a cozy sun room in this area, too, which still encourages soul mate connection. This will help spice up your existing love life or make space for a life mate.

If you are struggling through many false starts and disappointing dates in your journey to unite with your unique soul mate match, look for the southwest sector within the southwest sector. This is a great place to create sacred space to set your intentions for your ideal mate. Setting your intentions has to do with mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical inquiries as to how you desire your relationship to truly be fulfilling. Some people write their intentions down in an inventory. Some people gather various objects of meaning to pile up in this sacred space. Some other people use visual illustrations, photos, or collages. Whatever way of setting your intentions speaks to you, make sure to visit this area often so that you review your intentions often. Every date you go on helps you clarify what you really desire in a life partnership, what you are not willing to settle for. If you are clear about what you are not willing to settle for, then honor that part of yourself and go on to the next person. If you are not clear about a person, soul search about what it is that makes you uncomfortable or unclear; yet, give yourself a timeline, such as by the third date or within the third week of the courtship you will gain clarity. Create clarity for yourself and the clarity will arise in the relationship.

Of course, setting a physical space and creating sacred space to house your intention for your ideal relationship is just the first step in laying the groundwork for feng shui to really transform a fundamental part of your way of relating with another person. There are many more ways to incorporate practical traditional feng shui knowledge to get you closer to your life mate. You can find more practical feng shui tips to apply to your situation at: http://fengshuigal.com/secret

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